• tuckerm@feddit.online
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    5 hours ago

    This is the kind of thing that creates such a rift between current and former members, even though overall it is a good change.

    Somewhere there is an ex-Jehova’s Witness whose family member died because their religion told them not to accept blood transfusions, only for that rule to change a short time later. How long before the change date did that person die? It must be agonizing for them to see.

    A similar type of thing happened in Mormonism recently, with a change to their religious undergarments that now allow women to show more of their shoulders than before. For decades women were accused of looking “slutty” because they were showing too much of their shoulders, only for the religious leaders to now say, “Nevermind, it’s fine.” But the accusations and righteous lecturing and shouting matches that girls had with their parents don’t just go away when the religious leaders say “actually it’s OK now.” All of that still happened.

    And it only further highlights how arbitrary so many of these rules are, which people are then supposed to strictly follow and feel ashamed for not following.

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      5 hours ago

      overall it is a good change

      Why?

      And it only further highlights how arbitrary so many of these rules are, which people are then supposed to strictly follow and feel ashamed for not following.

      Yes. That’s how cults work.

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          They made an arbitrary decision not based on science that they preferred deaths over blood transfusions. They’ve now adjusted their stance, again not based on science, that they allow blood transfusions. Either stance doesn’t affect anyone that isn’t part of their group (except that they’ll increase demand on a scarce blood supply), and if we’re going to start pushing changes on them from outside the group I’d start with something other than blood transfusions.

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            Okay? Do they deserve to die because the religion they were indoctrinated into made an arbitrary decision?

            You can be upset at their leadership, and think they should leave their cult, but wishing them ill simply because of their religion is a step too far.

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              Okay? Do they deserve to die because the religion they were indoctrinated into made an arbitrary decision?

              No, but after they hit 18 they’re legally adults who have agency. They choose to stay, even if that process involves ignoring outside input or choosing to stay in the group they’ve been indoctrinated to. Before 18 is a different story and I see the debate on that as being the same debate about trans kids.

              You can be upset at their leadership, and think they should leave their cult, but wishing them ill simply because of their religion is a step too far.

              They are welcome to repent of their stupidity and join the human race, and I wish that they would!

              wishing them ill simply because of their religion is a step too far.

              It’s not ill will to allow them to face the consequences of actions they took.

      • 🌞 Alexander Daychilde 🌞@lemmy.world
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        overall it is a good change
        

        Why?

        So your question is “Why is it good that a religion that a number of people follow have loosened their beliefs to allow at least some of their members to receive better medical care?”

        Would you prefer they disallow medical intervention at all?

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          So your question is […]

          Sure, but moreso along the lines of this: When mormonism was made up blood transfusions had already been around nearly 200 years. That whole time mormons have been going along happily killing their cult members by denying them access to modern medical care apart from all the other atrocities they visit on their cultists who don’t buy the flavor-aid. Given that blood supplies are a scarce resource and the historical contribution rate of mormons is zero, why is it a good thing for a group to arbitrarily decide it’s time to start drawing out of the supply without contributing to it? It’s not like vaccines where their backwards beliefs affect other people around them; they’re only hurting themselves, and every one of them could walk off from their cult any time they wanted.

          Would you prefer they disallow medical intervention at all?

          OK, but that would effect the bottom line of their massive cash and property holdings, so they won’t do that. They’ll instead try to negotiate with science up to whatever keeps their coffers full to further their causes of tracking down escaped SA victims and baptising jews who were murdered in the Holocaust.

          I think it’s a lot more plausible (99%) that some higher up muckety muck in the mormon church or some large donor got caught receiving blood transfusions and the rule change is about that, with a wink and a nudge that no real mormon would actually partake. There’s nothing on the scientific front that changed and I doubt there’s some mormon council that sits around debating that kind of thing.

          Remember that no matter how much you stump for the mormon church they still think of you the worst punishment that they have: you’re going to hell.

  • WappleFF27@feddit.online
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    9 hours ago

    I’ve never stopped being amused that every infallible religion always comes with patch notes.

    “Aww, boo boo, you didn’t get it right the first time? Aww, are you stupid? Aww…”

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      Religion has to constantly amend its own rules to walk a delicate balance between control and acceptance. The rules change as society evolves. The JWs decided they can no longer allow sick children to die from treatable problems. At this point in history, allowing that outcome undermines the stabilty of the control structure. It’s the same reason catholic mass isnt given in Latin anymore as it was for your great grandparents. It’s why youre not getting vilified for eating meat on Friday anymore. It’s why most of the bible’s literal content is now ignored. Religious dogma has to be just strict enough to enforce control, but just loose enough not to be rejected outright. It’s a delicate balance. But when the tithes stop flowing in, and the adherents drift away, you can bet your ass the foundational rules will be changed in a hurry.

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    10 hours ago

    So which of the jhw leaders needed a blood transfusion? At least they didn’t choose the “rules for thee not for me” path, so that’s something.

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      So which of the jhw leaders needed a blood transfusion?

      Could be bottom up. Enough angry parents of sick kids and angry kids of sick parents demanding the church change or they’re leaving.

      Wouldn’t be the first time reform came on the back of departing parishioners

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        This is it entirely, they’re bleeding members over stuff like this and their stupid shunning policy. Who knew doctrine designed to piss people off and make them leave your niche religion forever wasn’t a good way to retain people in the long-term after your predictions of imminent apocalypse don’t come to pass.

        Couple that with all the sexual abuse lawsuits and you’ve got a serious financial squeeze on your hands. They’ve been selling assets left and right.

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    See atheists? People of other beliefs can change.

    So how about you reconsidering your belief that other religions are evil?

    Whoops, better cross out that “other”, you’re probably not ready to revisit your belief that atheism isn’t a religion. Baby steps.