• cynar@lemmy.world
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    As I read it, it basically comes off as the author being grumpy that it’s harder to sponge off people who drink less, or slower.

    I will do reciprocal drink buying, but hate formalising into “rounds”. My drinking rate can vary wildly. I don’t want to be forced to drink faster, to keep up with others.

    Gen Z is the most financially squeezed age group in my memory. The fact they want to be more discerning in how much they drink and pay makes complete sense.

    It’s also worth noting that contactless card machines also remove a major bottleneck in going to the bar.

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        If I’m going to the bar, and it’s busy, I’ll grab drinks for the people I’m explicitly with. I also keep a vague mental track of if I’m in a deficit with someone (I owe them a drink to balance out).

        I don’t do it with the expectation that they will buy my next drink however.

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    Back in the 1970’s I didn’t need a freaking loan to buy a round of drinks for the table.

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    I’m a millenial but on the very rare occassion that I go to the pub with a group, I hate buying rounds. Not because of cost, but because I’m a slow drinker and everyone is finished by the time I’ve drunk half a pint. Let me just enjoy my own drink at a pace I want to drink it.

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      Xer but yeah I agree. Its popular with the friends who want all their friends plastered. I have a budget when I go out. If you want to do the rounds thing then im going to have to go home early.

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    If you’re out with four people, if you’re doing rounds, you’ve got to have four pints if everyone’s putting in equally.

    If you only want two or three pints, you can’t buy rounds.

    The government (or was it the NHS or someone?) says we’re not allowed to have four pints, because that’s now binge drinking.

    So we only have two or three nowadays. So we don’t buy rounds.

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    Tbh the behaviour I engage in/observe is buying in pairs — you get the social aspect of buying rounds but can quit after 2, or buy them one the next time

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      Ngl if you’re paying £6 a pint you youre going to the wrong pub, the “expensive” local I go to has lager for £4 and even infamously expensive Guinness is only £4.90. Other pubs in the area a lager is £3.20 and a Guinness £4.10