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NONE@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 8 days ago

Lesbians, Gays and bisexuals, Do you look like someone you would have sex with?

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Lesbians, Gays and bisexuals, Do you look like someone you would have sex with?

NONE@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 8 days ago
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  • angstylittlecatboy@reddthat.com
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    If my stomach isn’t in frame and my hair is done.

  • rawn@feddit.org
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    I think I’d like myself as another person, but am still properly critical of myself as me.

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    Eh, I wouldn’t turn myself down, but I’d certainly not go out of my way to hit on me. I’m not really my type.

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    Fuck yea I’m hot.

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      On Fire!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

      • knightly the Sneptaur@pawb.social
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        Ditto~

  • uniquethrowagay@feddit.org
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    I don’t like my body type at all. I thought I was unattractive to everyone until my girlfriend proved me wrong

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      There’s always someone for everyone.

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        It took me almost 30 years to learn that lesson but yeah.

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    deleted by creator

  • TerranFenrir@lemmy.ca
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    That definitely is the case with me (say in around 70% of cases?).

    I think in my mind, people that are my type = attractive. I want to be attractive. Therefore, my ideal look = the body type I am attracted to. Thankfully, I have almost achieved my ideal “look” or whatever.

    So yeah, I do look like people I have sex with usually.

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      That is exactly my line of thinking.

  • randomname@sh.itjust.works
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    yeah I would find someone like me decently attractive. but I still find myself repulsive when I look in the mirror lmao.

  • Jerkface (any/all)@lemmy.ca
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    politics, values, and kinks are way more important than appearance

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      Yeah, but i asked especially if you or anyone looked like someone they would like to have sex with.

      So, do yo?

      (This is just a chill and funny question, pal. Just play along if you will)
      • Jerkface (any/all)@lemmy.ca
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        Appearance is never a sufficient factor on its own, but in my own case appearance, I wouldn’t consider it a disqualifying factor. Though me a few years ago wouldn’t have to try as hard, for sure…

        • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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          Good to know, thanks for play along! And you’re right, appearance is not everything. If someone is veey attractive and even my type, but is the biggest piece of shit ever, I’m just not interested at all.

          • Jerkface (any/all)@lemmy.ca
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            Honestly, decent people are so rare, one cannot afford to be fussy about appearance. Fortunately, ethical compatibility is VERY attractive.

            • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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              Hell yeah! Nothing’s more sexy than stand for humans rights!

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                Needlessly speciesist but it’s a good start

  • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.net
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    not anymore, my wife made me get a haircut

    on the plus side, I now look more like someone she would have sex with

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      Something tells me she knew what she was doing with making you get a haircut

      • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.net
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        she did, which is why I listened when she told me it was time

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    I’m glad that as a straight, this doesn’t apply to me, cause I have a twin brother and would’ve made for an awkward question.

    • slaneesh_is_right@lemmy.org
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      Somehow i wonder what the odds are of a twin being straight while the other is gay. Or if the odds are higher for both twins to be gay?

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        I have a client who’s SO’s twin brother is not gay. I don’t know what the odds are, of course, but this is proof that it can occur! I suppose it goes without saying they cannot be identical.

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    I’m super cute, generally a mess, and emotionally unavailable.

    I’m definitely my type.

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      That’s the attitude!

    • CarbonatedPastaSauce@lemmy.world
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      Pretty sure I dated you for a couple weeks last month.

      • Evkob (they/them)@lemmy.ca
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        I miss you <3

        (Seriously you’re better off without them!)

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    I think I kinda did ten or fifteen years ago, but I’m a bear/dad now and I’m much more into rugged women than rugged men. My taste in men runs twink-ish, usually.

    My wife has aged similarly though, which very much works for me.

    • NONE@lemmy.worldOP
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      That’s fair, My taste in men also leans more towards twinks, and currently I look kind of twink-y. But maybe if I keep gaining weight and muscle, while I don’t think I’ll end up looking “bad”, maybe I’ll stop being my type.

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    I’m an androgynous twink who is into bears. There is no overlap

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      I’m a bear into androgynous twinks. There is also no overlap

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        Thinking about it more, there is one area of overlap: the genitals 😆

        • weeeeum@lemmy.world
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          I’m not turned on by my bits, but I definitely like my butt (and other peoples butts)

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    No. I have a type and I’m not it.

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