Her reputation preceded her. As Bourne approached the lectern for public comment — shouting about “healthy, whole women!” — scores of district-area teachers got up from their seats and walked out of the meeting.

Bourne went ballistic.

“Ask those teachers to stop interrupting my comment!” she shouted at the meeting chair. “I want my time back! I want my time back!”

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    Article spends too much time repeating the mountains of runny diarrhoea she spouted through her hate-filled mouth and not enough time talking about the opinions of the teachers who actually do care about children’s welfare. At least they mentioned all the restraining orders on her for endangering children by doxxing trans kids.

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    That happens when there are no medical means readily available to deal with severe mental problems.

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    But if someone breaths too loudly during a data centre or flock camera discussion they’ll arrest them on the spot.

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    Most of the relationships she spent years forming — as a mom, community member, and university employee — have now dissolved. No one called her on her birthday last month, she said, through glassy eyes filled to the brim with tears once again. Attempts to connect with these former friends — by sending them controversial columns about gender identity, for example — are not received kindly. “We don’t want to hear from you,” Beth said a friend recently told her. “Don’t send us anything anymore,” said another.

    she seems closer to the verge of emotional breakdown than she is to the verge of an insult.

    The mom needs some impartial advice as to why everyone in her life cut ties with her, and why her eldest child being happy is driving her to the point of a mental breakdown.

    Just another opportunity to post about the missing missing reasons.

    EDIT: Quotes are from the sacbee article linked elsewhere in the comments.

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    The former University of California staffer’s virulent activism began several years ago following her own daughter’s transition.

    Ah, there’s the rub. Her oldest child is trans and she just couldn’t accept it. The article linked in the quote is very interesting and gives a lot more context.

    It truly is what Yoda said: Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering.

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      I seriously don’t understand that. If my kid came out as trans, bi, ace or what the hell ever, I’d still love them. I can’t imagine NOT loving them.

      They’re still doing the fucking dishes though.

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        Did you read the SacBee article? It’s not explicitly an interview with her child, but the reporter obviously quoted them extensively.

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      Hurt people hurt people.

      I believe this in my core and will take it to my grave

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          Dumb to us.

          There’s so many complexities at play of which I don’t think any of us can assume to know.

          It’s a shame regardless.

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            I’m sorry but comments like these are why we’re at where we’re at in my opinion.

            Yes, hurt people hurt people, but that isn’t an excuse. If you violate the social contract, you lose the right to participate in the privileges of said social contract.

            At what point to we stop giving these people passes for the sheer amount of violence and vitriol they put into this world?

            If the majority of society finds this woman fucking stupid as hell, then I’d say it’s safe to assume, she’s stupid as fucking hell and this we deal with her appropriately.

            Everyone has a right to an opinion, but that right doesn’t exclude you from the consequences of being a fucking moron.

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            Prejudice isn’t a “complexity”. It’s a lack of any subtlety or complexity: “X people era bad regardless of anything and that’s final”. Regardless even of being your own child.

            Trust me, I understand wanting to make excuses for people and wanting to believe that there’s a little good in everyone but sometimes there just isn’t.

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      She can be a crazed suffering wreck in jail but she has no business trying to lead anything. Bitch is actively hurting kids through discourse

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        These are the kinds of people who make me actively cram down my own personal squeamishness surrounding the subject to actively try to be a better person towards trans and intergender people and anyone else who is non-binary.

        Our civilization could be so much better without hate. Especially when it’s over variations of conception or development. People can’t do a damn thing about it – as an AuDHD person myself, I know. I wish there was a pill that could utterly eliminate all symptoms of my ADD, but there isn’t.

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          Thankyou for acknowledging the ‘squeamishness’, better still being a good person and recognising it as whait is.

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            And that is literally all what it is - a physical squeamishness. That’s it. And no, a firm, professional business handshake doesn’t trigger it.

            And I see two people going nookie on each other, I’ll yell at them to get a room no matter what the combination. I don’t need to see your tentacle-tongues in action, much less anything more risqué.

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              Same, that’s why i dont get these people. I get it, queerness is not my preference, i also dont like pineapple on pizza. The solution is simple, i can just choose not to eat pineapple pizza and let other people eat whatever the hell they want.

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                i can just choose not to eat pineapple pizza and let other people eat whatever the hell they want.

                If more of humanity could adopt this simple piece of philosophy, our entire civilization would be so much better off.

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    Poor crybully got upset people didn’t want to listen to her bigotry. She is obviously not a healthy woman or she wouldn’t be freaking out like that.

    Good for the people that stood up and voted with their feet.

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      Part of me wishes the author had done what the teachers did and refused to give her an audience. Instead they’ve now just published everything she had to say.

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        In their defense it is rather entertaining watching something so pathetic meltdown. Not that hard to do it to em in person but rare to see it happen in such a public setting, only way it could be better is if she went and got herself killed.

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    I want my time back!

    I hope one day she realizes she’s never getting any of it back, and decides to spend it on things that don’t ruin other people’s lives.

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      The chance is there, but far too many of these kinds of people hate for life. Like toxic waste, they just get more and more vile with age.

      Frankly, IIRC having a nonbinary daughter is what initially set her off. And if the estrangement of a child doesn’t bodily smack you across the face such that you reconsider your life choices, not much else ever will.

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    Here’s the video. Click the public comment link to jump directly to public comments, she’s the second to last commenter, and she comes in hot lol.

    She seems to be okay with gay men and lesbian women, but draws the line at transgender folks - perhaps because her own child is transgender? Unfortunately she’s missing the bigger picture.

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        Yeah, kinda bizzare. Like you’re okay with one segment of LGBTQ+ but not others.

        That’s the problem with anti-LGBTQ+ folks. They want it to be simple, cut and dry, but each person is unique in how they feel inside and out. All you have to do is support the people we love, our friends and neighbors. Don’t try to figure it out for yourself, just be there to support others through their journey.

        Why is that so hard? (Rhetorical question of course)

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    Bourne, inexplicably dressed in a trans flag tank top

    I was wondering about that. It has to be intentional… but why?!