Well, curse of reductiveness in that worn, trite sayings are about all you have time to say and have remembered on a day when a lot is going on and things are crazy. Any advice given to me on that day bounced right off of my brain, and it was an uncle I admire that was the first to tell me that people will say “happy wife, happy life” to me, and to count how many times, but to know it’s also a valid advice. The situation forces the reductiveness. It is sort of interesting to me how it’s possible to say the same fairly specific words, and people come at it from varied perspectives to arrive at a truth in the phrase.