• BeelzebubEiNukuKoskaan@piefed.social
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    105
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    2 days ago

    Seeing posts like this makes me realise how lucky I am to have been born in a country with sane pedestrian infrastructure and generally safe environment.

    I found it funny when I watched a video titled “10 most surprising things about Finland” and one of them was about how kids just walk about in the city, on their own. I was confused as to why that is so shocking but then I remembered that North America has sort of forgot about using legs as a mode of transport.

    • prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      3
      ·
      1 day ago

      The US is a very large and varied place. There are places like you describe that still exist in the US. It would be like saying all of Europe is canals and bicycles because you saw a few photos of Amsterdam

      • BeelzebubEiNukuKoskaan@piefed.social
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        4
        ·
        1 day ago

        Of course. But its the exception, rather than the rule.

        Much like I’m sure Europe has some cities where its extremely difficult to get around without a car.

    • WFH@lemmy.zip
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      40
      ·
      2 days ago

      North America has sort of forgot about using legs as a mode of transport.

      If they remember to use them a moron in a lifted emotional-support-pickup-truck will break every bone in their body at the first intersection. And get away with it. North American city design is not just car-centric, it’s actively human-hostile. Giant stroads, no sidewalks, no bike lanes…

      • StankStain@lemmy.today
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        6
        ·
        2 days ago

        i regularly cross a dangerous intersection and have to veep my head on a swivel because the only thing between me and a huge suv or truck is a curb

      • Jiral@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        8
        ·
        2 days ago

        I was walking myself from an inner suburb to dowtnown of a mid sized town in the US, maybe 3 km or so. Except for the part of the highway bridge which was positively dangerous, it was a pleasant walk. Locals considered us as crazy lunatics and the only reason they probably did not send us to an asylum was because we were Europeans and they do that crazy stuff like walking all the time.

      • Jiral@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        14
        ·
        2 days ago

        This is completely crazy. Land of the free.

        "Authorities said they would drop the charge against Patterson if she signs a safety plan that involves the use of a GPS tracker on her son’s phone but Patterson told ABC News she is refusing to sign it.

        “I just felt like I couldn’t sign that and that in doing so, would be agreeing that there was something unsafe about my home or something unsafe about my parental decisions and I just don’t believe that,” Patterson said.

        Patterson, who is currently out on bail, faces up to 1 year in jail with the reckless conduct charge."

      • A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        14
        ·
        edit-2
        2 days ago

        America does not want children to exist, yet perpetually laments that children never go outside to play anymore.

        and they lament that while not building playgrounds where young children can socialize and play, while destroying third spaces to hang out and socialize in for teenagers, and… most egregious of all, when they finally do go outside, calling the cops on them for a variety of made up reasons regardless of their age. Especially if their tan is a shade too dark.

      • BeelzebubEiNukuKoskaan@piefed.social
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        12
        ·
        2 days ago

        lol.

        Some time ago I picked up my 10 year old niece from the train station. She first walked 3km to a bus stop, then went 15km with the bus to the train station, then 180km to where I picked her up and drove to my parents. Only reason I picked her up was because she didn’t know what buses to use etc. After that, my mum showed her how the buses work and which ones to use etc so ever since that, she’s been doing the trip completely own her own.

        • Agrivar@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          1 day ago

          For what it’s worth, that’s how my youth in New England was. I would walk/hitchike to the bus station, to catch a Greyhound to Boston, to then hop on the subway to head out of the city to Quincy, then walk or take the local bus to my cousin’s house to visit. Roughly 100km of travel, unaccompanied, starting around age 11-12. Everyone walked/bussed/subwayed around the city.

          • BeelzebubEiNukuKoskaan@piefed.social
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            2
            ·
            1 day ago

            Yeah I know there is areas in the US that have decent infra for non-car people. Boston has been mentioned quite often. I know a guy who grew up in Boston, now lives in Detroit and he is cursing his life all the time because he is so dependent on his car. He said that he can get to work in 1 hour with car, over 4 hours with public trans. Blew my mind.

        • A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          6
          ·
          2 days ago

          it helps you have functional public infrastructure.

          America? Not so much. It can take hours to get somewhere outside of like new york or chicago, where it takes a care maybe 20-30 minutes to get to. and I know this for a fact, because I’ve tried to take the bus on numerous occasions, and found it to be faster to walk unless you luck out and happen to have your destination on the same bus route you got on with no transfers.

    • sem@piefed.blahaj.zone
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      9
      ·
      2 days ago

      There is a wonderful moment in back to the future 3 where doc gets drunk and starts describing the car-centric future to the people of the old west.

      Old timer: why, does anyone still walk or run?

      Doc Brown: only for recreation

    • stoy@lemmy.zip
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      12
      ·
      2 days ago

      I remember the day before the first day of school, my mom walked me to and from the school so I would know the path, every other day I walked myself to school, across a railroad and several blocks.

      At 10 I was allowed to bike to and from school ( school rule)

      Sweden is great

      • BeelzebubEiNukuKoskaan@piefed.social
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        11
        ·
        2 days ago

        I was so salty when I lived 50m too close to the school and wasn’t “allowed” to bicycle to the school haha. After a couple of years, I realized that nobody is going to punish me, or care, if I used a bicycle.

      • kestrel7_7@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        2 days ago

        I took a bike to school from age 6 onward in the USA in the 90’s. It was pretty normal, too, lots of my peers would ride their bikes in from ages 6-13. It’s really weird how quickly this shifted in the USA, IMO.

    • QualifiedKitten@discuss.online
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      3
      ·
      2 days ago

      I was just talking to a coworker the other day because I want to move somewhere outside the city center. I don’t currently have a car, but would like to have one again. But I still want to find somewhere walkable to live because that to me is freedom.