I am so sick of “yeah I’ll be there in ten minutes” and then I look and I’m blocked or some shit.

Is it just gooning/fishing for pictures?

  • lazyneet@programming.devEnglish
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    7 days ago

    I’ve gotten a lot of “talk to you tomorrow” then the next day the convo doesn’t exist. I’m guessing it’s either bots or humans with unreal short attention spans. The Grindr Turing test requires a face pic in the profile and evidence of a personality.

    • freeusething@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
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      7 days ago

      I’ve done a little of that for safety reasons. If they already have my address and are getting weird I’ll tell them we can meet tomorrow and then quietly block them when they are offline.

      Usually when they start pressing about condoms or other boundaries. Been playing this game long enough to know what a stealther looks like.

      • lazyneet@programming.devEnglish
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        6 days ago

        I’m not a top and I’m very upfront about safe sex. I don’t know why someone would feel unsafe with me but frankly it offends me every time. I’m just describing one side of an interaction, and it’s possible that I haven’t properly communicated here how those interactions go down.