I’m circumcised and I’ve never had the issue you describe, but I’m also on HRT and don’t get spontaneous erections anyways. The thing about anal as compared to vaginal is that the anatomy is very different and requires more force. Your issue will have more to do with tightness than angle, though sideways and one-leg-up are generally easier positions. Make sure to buy lube, preferably water-based.

Tried both, failed at both. Guys have hairier asses, but the biggest challenge in general is the amount of force required to penetrate. I generally don’t top.

As a non-passing transfem with some kink experience via a few long-term partners (quality over quantity) I’m not offended by the existence of chasers or being fetishized in an authentic way. You seem like a decent person, as long as you aren’t one of those who pretend to be straight. You are correct in assuming that transfems usually don’t top, and in some cases the hormones make it difficult or impossible.

I guess my question is why you need transfem-specific dating advice when there’s a good number of us in the gay community and bouncing around different apps.

I like small tgirl dicks, but judging by your username that isn’t what’s on offer. As for what’s missing, most dick pics are missing a view of the body. The penis alone is not interesting unless it’s attached to an interesting person.

Futanari catgirl

Thanks! There’s some hot stuff on there (image loading issue aside)

We’ve been through a lot, and I’ve come to realize that this isn’t going to work long-term. I hope we can still be friends.

Yeah, I’d like to see some twink subs with bigger guy doms. I’m really into twinks.

It’s offering companionship, which non-interactive porn can’t offer. Find a gay man who’s always horny and you’ll get the same thing with the added benefit of physical contact.

Not to diminish the fact that BDSM is queer in general, I think it’s possible to erase communities through ignorance. Everyone defaults to cis-het white, generally maledom stuff, which makes a lot of people lose interest. You can say you’re gender-blind, but I’ve only seen cis-looking women as the focus on that board, and I don’t find that terribly stimulating.

We’ve got gay and trans communities, we’ve got BDSM communities, why not a gay BDSM community?

No, but I would if

• my ass could take more abuse
• gay guys didn’t have the awareness to constantly question their own role
• I passed for cis female

Yes

Because of a cultural distrust of masculine sexuality. Even in the gay community, I’m more approachable now as a transfem than I was as a man. I’d guess the expectation of getting topped by a guy combined with testosterone-fuelled horny, especially if two men want to fuck you at once, can be off-putting to some.

*genitals. “gentiles” means non-Jewish people. I know there’s a joke in there somewhere.

As for this hypothetical society, it exists today in a few parts of Africa and some island tribes, and you might count nudist communities as well. I think you would get used to it pretty quickly.

I get the jaw locking issue from deepthroating or from holding my head at weird angles. It’s a shame because I love sucking dick and it’s one of the few sexual activities I can do reliably without discomfort, but generally I just suck the head. Perhaps a system of restraints, like a dental gag or ring gag + rope, would solve the issue. I’ve never used an open-mouth gag but it’s definitely on my wishlist.

A couple of times with one of our friends. In my experience, relying on the more masculine partner for such things is less likely to work out than if the girl takes care of it.

More like I don’t remember the chronology since it happened a decade ago when I was rather sexually active.

This isn’t one I share. :/

Cum to think of it, I may have given my first handjob to someone I didn’t even know.