Sex is submission for me. They are the same act. If I am being penetrated, in that moment, I belong to the person using me. My brain shuts off. Things like having my body gripped and moved around help, being spanked or came on or covered with graffiti go with that, but when I am being fucked, I am an object that belongs to all cocks.

I can’t even pretend to be dominant. I don’t give a shit about my own orgasm. Desire is to be underneath someone who is using me to make their body feel good.

I just am. My partner wants me to top more, so they have to trigger me to be more dominant, which usually means I’m “daddy” (which is weird since I’m mtf but I roll with it). They’ll say things of that nature, I’ll call them a good girl, etc. The “good girl” thing really seems to do it for them.

“What should I do to you?”

My preferences are mostly submissive, but the way I mesh with an individual, along with what they desire from me, certainly plays a role.

Partners who state plainly what they enjoy or would like certainly motivate my submissive nature. It is particularly thrilling when you feel comfortable seeking out your partner’s pleasure just how they want you to.

Being corrected physically, moved into place.

“Good Girl” or “No, ask for it”

I guess it’s usually that moment when I know I am not in control?