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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 14 hours ago

do not prove the rule

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do not prove the rule

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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 14 hours ago
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  • yetAnotherUser@discuss.tchncs.de
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    5 hours ago

    Badly dressed

    Image of a guy in a plain shirt

    The ads of the accessory industrial complex have gotten quite subversive.

    Edit: Also the guy looks very snuggleable

  • DebraBucket@lemmy.world
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    So he’s a straight man?

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPM
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      a straight man who only likes men 😔

  • Straßenkatze [She/They]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    One is never truly boring or unfunny,

    But rather understood by themself alone,

    Where some may never get their humor,

    But they shall sparkle on as the queer dear they are.

    Also: Dresscodes overrated, embrace the all-black get-up.

  • volore@scribe.disroot.org
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    I’m in this meme and I don’t like it

  • Skullgrid@lemmy.world
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    The alleged top shortage leads to straight man looking gay man.

    The real mystery is how how us straight men get laid in the first place.

    • Hideakikarate@sh.itjust.works
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      Brother, I’m still wondering how I got, and still have, a wife that says she loves me. I think she’s just being polite at this point.

      • Slovene85@sh.itjust.works
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        Canadian.

      • CannonFodder@lemmy.world
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        10 hours ago

        Amen to that.

    • n0xy@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      I’ve heard rumors that meming on lemmy can work

      • Skullgrid@lemmy.world
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        that kind of thing only worked for me once, and that was under an extremely specific set of circumstances.

        Turns out that if someone arranges something, and you’re the only person that turns up, you can have a date without having to go through all the trouble of trying to set up a date.

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    Don’t think I’ve met humans who were really boring, just different interests from me. (Or maybe I’m too boring myself)

    • queerlilhayseed@piefed.blahaj.zone
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      Every person is interesting for the same reason every number is.

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