I really want to give up because no one seems to want to help me and I do not know what to do. I am terribly depressed and feeling more despondent by the day (the only time when I am not is when I am playing games).
Contact X organization? The waitlist is several months from now and they are full. Someone seems willing to help me? They end up going silent.
I am so tired and I doubt many people care about some random person on the internet.
Context: I live in central Florida, cannot drive, do not want to go back to college, have no friends that can help me near my area, and am not sure what to do. I only have a few thousand dollars for bus fares and I do not know where to go.
Additional context: I feel like I need to leave within the next few days because I can barely drag out my situation.
I bet this post will be mostly forgotten within a few days and people will just go on their way… I feel rotten.
What do you mean by material support situation? If you are referring to how much support I have in terms of resources currently available to me, then I do not have much (some savings and whatever rehousing resources were recommended online).
Also I kindaaaaa feel like I need to move out as soon as possible because I have stalled for long enough and I think my parents will stop allowing me to stay here without doing what they say.
that’s exactly what i mean by material support, yes: how much money, but also social support you have. i referenced this because it is much, much easier to work on your mental health while having some sort of material support.
i don’t know what kind of situation you have with your parents (what they would require you to do, or how negatively that would impact you), but i guess i would weigh doing their bidding specifically so that you can have the time and resources to improve your mental health (which will then allow you to more safely move out later, likely), vs leaving and not having that social support and needing to find it elsewhere or support yourself.
i only have limited experience with that kind of relationship with parents, but i understand that it is really tough. them holding material support (and really your very life) above your head so that you’ll do what they want you to do is stressful, toxic and damaging. again, wishing you the best.
Basically, I have nothing substantial that could support independent living, so moving out would be dangerous (though staying here would ruin my mental health).
They want me to apply for college courses or work at their place, and I do not want to do either (they also did quite horrible things in the past that make me not want to interact with them at all).
Is it unrealistic to consider moving to a place where sleeping outside is not illegal? And thanks for the wish.
i have absolutely no experience with that and so wouldn’t feel confident giving you any advice regarding it. however, with my limited knowledge it seems like becoming homeless would also be extremely challenging for your mental health, so it’s hard for me to give you any further suggestions. ultimately the person who knows what would be the best for you is probably you. hope you find whatever that road is.
I am the most indecisive person I know aaaah. Thanks for the advice though.
Do you have experience with working at a place you do not enjoy?
i’ve definitely had relatively positive work experiences over the course of my life so far, but even the best has issues or problems that need to be resolved for one way or another. obviously the severity of those issues and problems can vary, though. why do you ask?
Ah I was just wondering if I should work at my parents’ place or not (and while you likely worked in a different type of environment from my parents, your perspective is appreciated). I promise I am not THAT lazy, I just dislike my parents a lot due to them just not being good people.
I realize that what I do with my life is up to me, but it is difficult to really understand that due to how much issues are working against me.
yeah, it’s hard to know how that would affect you without having done it first. but, you could always try it out and see what the experience is like first to give yourself that information in the first place. without knowing the details of your situation, that seems less risky than becoming homeless.
i can understand that. there’s a lot of pressure when your life and well-being is on the line, and you’re feeling pulled in different directions.
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I am a bit curious as to what this comment originally said.
Young people with no material support who end up homeless often end up trafficked or self-trafficking. There’s no regular place to wash yourself or any clothing that doesn’t get stolen, and SA and other assault happens a lot.
I do not really have any good options at the moment, so I am not sure what to do.
I told you early on. It was unwelcome.
None of us who have been through it liked it, many of us would have used the empire’s tools to better advantage ourselves against the empire, had we the foresight. We didn’t, but we have hindsight. We don’t offer a bitter pill from hatred or wanting our comrades to fail. We offer it in hope you will surpass our shortcomings, and not that we may benefit from it, but that you may.
Oh, I appreciate what you said at the end, but I am unsure what you mean when you say “it was unwelcome” (being homeless?).
Wow. I urged you to stay in school. Do what you want. Accept the consequences.
What? I genuinely was asking what you meant, but then you send me a message that comes across as aggressive.