On one hand, I’m feeling more and more confident I could have bottom surgery, but on another, I don’t always actively feel repulsed by my bottom parts - except for that I cannot bear a child. And that saddens me a ton.
Don’t focus so much on dysphoria. Focus on euphoria instead: what would make you feel happy, confident, and sexy?
If keeping your current equipment makes you feel happy, confident and sexy then more power to you. But if bottom surgery would give you those feelings, then perhaps that’s what you should pursue.
Me too. I feel so incomplete without it.
Personally I still don’t know what to do.
On one hand, I’m feeling more and more confident I could have bottom surgery, but on another, I don’t always actively feel repulsed by my bottom parts - except for that I cannot bear a child. And that saddens me a ton.
Don’t focus so much on dysphoria. Focus on euphoria instead: what would make you feel happy, confident, and sexy?
If keeping your current equipment makes you feel happy, confident and sexy then more power to you. But if bottom surgery would give you those feelings, then perhaps that’s what you should pursue.