• Cyrus Draegur@lemmy.zip
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    2 days ago

    Stop fantasizing about falling in love with literally any person who is nice to you and breaking your own heart.

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      2 days ago

      What about someone who spent 6 hours forming a strong connection with you then you literally never hear from them again?

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          6 hours ago

          For me it was a life-changing friendship that I will cherish forever. For them, it was customer assistance finding an item in the storeroom.

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            6 hours ago

            Haha yeah… :) Life is a bit weird that way. Everyone sees reality from inside their own little meat bag bodies only. But when we die, it seems we get a playback of what happened during our life, and also get to experience both sides of every important moment. We get to know how we made the other person feel.

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          17 hours ago

          I mean clearly. We scheduled time to talk the following day too. She wanted a text as soon as I got up.

          Bam. Nothing. Something happened in the ~8 hours we didn’t talk that changed all that. I don’t know what. I will never know what.

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            17 hours ago

            I probably dont have to tell you about modern women… Or maybe I do… Anyway, you can find lots of examples on YouTube about how some of them behave.

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                6 hours ago

                Haha man… Its difficult enough even without autism!

                You guys just checked the “Extreme Difficulty” on that reincarnation checkbox didnt you… :)

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                  15 minutes ago

                  Yeah. I luckily got the good kind of autism where everyone calls me a genius (which anyone with above average intelligence can tell you geniusness isn’t a thing). But drives women away pretty quickly due to a “Mysterious Unlikeable Trait.”