• NewDark@lemmings.world
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    1 year ago

    It sounds like the point they’re making is more: “we internalize and understand relationship norms through serial monogamy, and maybe more people would benefit from reconsidering if that is what they want.”

    Not: “You wanna cheat on your partner? Just do it lol.”

    • Kacarott@aussie.zone
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      1 year ago

      Maybe I misunderstood it then, it seemed like they were presenting this as a defence for people who cheat, like “don’t blame them, blame the society which ultimately causes it”.

      Edit: reading again, it very clearly says “… Instead of vilifying it [infidelity]…” So they really are trying to say “stop getting upset about it”