Which is why it’s a shame to see you fight each other as if that isn’t the case.
I would wholeheartedly recommend reading How To Win Friends And Influence People (or at least this summary). Especially if you’re trying to convince people to vote in the midterms.
I was thinking about this a lot recently when wasting my time arguing some tankies. Imagine a 3rd party candidate somehow magically won the presidency. Now they face a house and senate stacked with Rs and Ds. The president would be completely paralyzed their whole term, not achieving any of their lofty goals. So the 3rd party would have to get house and senate too. I never even see anyone campaining for these positions as a third party, and so there’s just absolutely no credibility in any alternative candidates. Why the fuck even talk about any 3rd party candidates? Just hold your nose and vote the fucking D even if you don’t like the candidate.