• Zoe@piefed.blahaj.zone
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    30 days ago

    My therapist must have been dying on the inside for the months of “ugh, I hate being a guy, I don’t want anyone to look at me and lump me in with the rest of the men” before I finally figured it out lol

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        27 days ago

        Haha sorry about that! It took me staring so many obvious signs in the face before I got it. That doesn’t necessarily mean you’re trans or not, but just know that there are no wrong answers either way, and this community is certainly accepting of folks who are questioning 😊

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      28 days ago

      Omg that was me too. Trans friend to egg me: “have you ever had any gender feelings?”. My dumb ass: “no not really, I mean I absolutely hate being a man and I hate everything masculine about myself, and I don’t want to be seen as a man, but I guess I am one so i guess I’ll continue to deal with it”. Her: “okay then…”.

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        27 days ago

        Oh god, I said that exact sentence so many times 😂 “I guess I am one so I guess I’ll just keep dealing with it”

        I want to go back and shake egg-me by the shoulders and tell her that you can just… be a girl!