• djmikeale@feddit.dk
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    1 month ago

    If you trust him (if you don’t, why are you gonna have sex with him?), Be honest that you’re nervous, and talk scenarios so hopefully they seem less scary. E.g. agree in advance that the goal isn’t necessarily to make him cum. Then I’d consider trying on e.g. a banana first to get acquainted with having a long thing in your mouth. Consider watching/reading some guides, or ask an LLM for advice, e.g. how to talk to him about this to get less anxious. What are you anxious about, if I may ask?

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      1 month ago

      I guess the taste of cum. But I am going to take your advice and tell him I will give it a try, but if his precum freaks me out I will finish him outside my mouth just using my hand

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        Sounds reasonable. Just agree with him that you don’t swallow the first time, and that he should let you know when he’s about to finish