My pops would keep all his old underwears because to him, they made great rags to clean off the stove and dry the car after a wash.

The first time my friend helped me wash my dad’s car, he just stared at the underwear like he was on some alien planet.

Get to drying, dum dum.

I spent this week searching for Christmas gifts. It’s cold outside and I suddenly had this thought that everyone in my family plus my friends are getting tan colored jackets with hoods. It just came to me out of the blue.

Am I your friend?

So, weird similarities…I have a bag of napkins, like, the paper ones that you but from the store. I guess my dad bought them years ago and they just sat in his room, never used. After he passed, I figured, hey - free napkins.

I can’t bring myself to use them because they smell like his room.

Definitely is. Sadly he’s too far gone and will find a way to spin this and suddenly she’s getting attacked off of whatever insane claims he made. People like him won’t try to get better or even defend, they redirect.