GrapheneOS only publishes updates for devices with active security updates. Your device is EOL and therefore won’t receive any further mainline updates. It still will receive extended support from the Android 14 legacy branch with whatever security patches arrive in upstream AOSP, but unlikely to see device-specific patches nor firmware patches. Your device isn’t getting the same care and attention that active devices are receiving nor will it receive any future versions of Android through GrapheneOS.
Systemd is both in a lot more large distros than just Fedora, RHEL and has limited viable alternatives (OpenRC as a partial replacement, no others I can think of that come close). While it has its issues particularly with the extra bundled services of mixed quality, SystemD is generally a flexible and suitable option for service management on Linux.
Not to mention how inflammatory the parent comment is.