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Cake day: January 20th, 2025

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  • This doesn’t happen to me because i made the mistake of not taking stuff like account creation seriously 20 years ago and i learnt my lesson, OP will have learnt his now. Since you seem to share the notion that it’s not important if you lose access to an account which active software is bound to, WITH NO OTHER REAL WAY TO PROVE THAT YOU OWN THAT SPECIFIC LICENSE (you can’t even be sure from Rockstar’s side that the Steam account hasn’t been hacked and now the criminal wants to get the GTA credentials, and Rockstar does not have an ID stored to compare OP’s to), you will probably learn it too sooner or later.

    That the support asked him for the original username (that’s something they HAVE stored and is bound to the owner, because it was defined at account creation) to confirm his ownership (on a pretty weak basis i might add), is the way Rockstar wants to remedy those situations unbureaucratically. But OP can’t give them an straight answer because he has ignored the situation for so long that he can’t remember that info anymore.

    The legal office of any Corp worth their salt forbids the (outsourced, but where it’s inhouse the rule is the same tbh) support to login into user accounts, because that’s one way to be in real trouble if your support takes over user accounts and pulls shady shit with them.

    The Crew name is public information, so it’s of no use to them, and sending your password in cleartext per email is either a sign of being mentally unwell or you don’t care because you got it from a hack somewhere. If I were the support here, i would suspect someone other than the owner of the account wants to take over the account (no definite answer to my questions and infobombing are social engineering tactics), and go into high alert mode, which happened here.

    I don’t defend 3rd-Party launchers, those are unneeded trash. But as a veteran support, I have to defend them - they are not responsible for picking up OPs slack that hasn’t been cleaned up for years.


  • But this whole situation started with him ignoring that he didn’t have access to the mail address connected to his account, and i bet that this has been this way for years, not a few days. And he couldn’t even spit out one definite answer for the original nickname used when creating the account (which tells me it definitely has been years). They didn’t ask for the wrong things, OP couldn’t answer them.


  • Sorry for you to go through this. I also had parents that always put me down and never encouraged me any way, but at least they didn’t do the comparing thing, that must have hurt.

    Just do your own thing and i would recommend trying to set boundaries with your parents - at least your dad seems to try to respect them (asking you if he might tell the high school coach), and i think his comment about you coming a long way was him acknowledging the hard work and motivation you put in, at least i read it that way - expressing stuff like that might not be his strong suit. Your mom might be a different beast tho.

    If your mom’s involvement in your activities is detrimental to your mental wellbeing, you might wanna tell her to stop talking like that about you, or you keep her out of the loop if you can. I don’t know if you are still living with them, and your options depend a lot on how dependent you are from them.

    (Also, please try using paragraphs. it really helps with readability of longer posts)


  • I agree with you, even if you are downvoted. I’ve wrecked more in-ear buds by (non-replaceable) broken cable than i can count, while i’m on my 3rd bluetooth headphone in about 10 years - i lost none of them, and the second one is still around as backup.

    The security is a thing that can be patched if it pops up and is only an issue if your OPSEC differs strongly from the common citizen, and the energy argument comes across like a purity test - the light in my fridge probably uses more energy.

    I would never go back to cable, especially since noise cancelling doesn’t work without a battery anyway - and i am very unhappy without noise cancelling.

    Also, i have a power bank where i can use 21600 Li-ion Battery cells as power source (and it doubles as charger for those cells) - on travels i take a few batteries with me, and even if i find myself for weeks without power, i will have it whenever i need it.