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Humanity has “lost the fight against climate change” …because of a few stubborn, greedy governments who have done everything they can to get us all to believe it’s because we didn’t recycle enough.

No ordinary person ever had any power to change this. We could only make change happen if we all came together but we won’t because apparently we’re the problem.

Also worth noting that getting people to feel apathetic and fatalistic using messages like this post is actually a well known strategy to destroy motivation for change. The battle is definitely ongoing and we may yet win it. Don’t give up hope or they win.

I get to work from home exclusively. My right to do that is never questioned. My boss is super understanding and my work gives me holidays whenever I want on short notice. I get raises all the time and if any of our clients start being toxic I’m allowed to shove them out of the nearest airlock. Yes, I love being self employed 😁.

Everyone should at least once, seriously consider starting their own business and working from home permanently. Specially now you can literally put everything you love doing, whatever it is, into ChatGPT and it’ll tell you the best business for YOU to start, how to structure it, what you’ll need and how to make it all work (Yes, yes AI will be the end of us bla bla but in the mean time it’s a goldmine of free information and inspiration).

Having a job can be nice and cosy but working for yourself is incredible. There’s no HR, no KPI’s decided by someone else, no office politics and you can work from home wearing scuba gear if you want to. It really is worth trying to find your bliss and not just accepting things as they are.

Couple of little success nuggets I will add… Only buy hardware/software as you need it, not before. In fact, don’t buy anything until there’s a clear need. No office space, no business cards even, no cool e-ink tablet to take notes with or other vanity silliness. Nothing you don’t need. Don’t offer services you don’t need to offer. If you behave like a swiss army knife, you’ll be treated like one forever.

Whatever you’re selling, make it a monthly subscription. This might be the most important bit of advice I have if you want to work happily from home for yourself successfully. Try out a bunch of networking groups and join a couple that focus on friendship first and business second. Those are your office pals who will bring you clients, be clients and give you advice and all you have to do is the same for them.

I guess no one’s reading this far down but that’s ok. For some reason your post inspired me 🤭

This line is interesting from this article (no paywall or ads).

“Thinking about business cards in the future, they are destined to go the same way as the tie. Some people will use them but they will not serve any real purpose other than to simply establish an image about the person or the company they work for”.

I think that feels about right. It hadn’t even occurred to me to compare it to tie wearing, but I think it’s true. Maybe 2 out of 30 people now wear any kind of suit or tie to the groups I go to and it used to be the standard. I haven’t had to order any new cards in over 2 years and it used to be every six months.

That guy’s so funny “If you think that’s insane hit subscribe!!” Wait what? These idiots reveal their agenda so quickly. Windows is fine. Honestly, I’m speaking to you from outside the bubble and we’re all ok. Everything’s running fine and updates are happening without any issue for most of us. This sweaty bearded salesman is just dog whistling Linux users and “mentally vulnerable” Windows users. If you think switching operating systems is going to go smoothly for you, boy do I have a bridge I want to sell you. “Everyone Hates Windows Right Now” yeah right 🤣

The only thing more certain to exist till the end of time than prostitution is people complaining about it. I like it because it makes something explicit that is implicit in so many apparently non transactional relationships. There are so many people who say prostitution should be banned, who are also in relationships/marriages where they expect sex for shelter, food, safety or whatever. Prostitution makes the transaction clear. People point to the exploitative nature of it, but then reveal their real agenda by also rejecting the idea of making it safer for the people selling access to their bodies. The whole thing is a massively hypocritical pile of double standards. Mix into that cultures with backwards patriarchal religious doctrines and that’s where you get the really angry people who talk about dishonor and stoning and all that jazz. Prostitution has been around since there were people and will always be around. When the puritans are in charge it just hides for a bit. This has been my TED talk, thanks lol

For some reason it’s always been “Landlord vs. tenant late with the rent” for me. If it involves the phrase “Are you sure there’s no other way I can pay the rent” I’m in lol (btw… looking at the community guidelines in here your post might be more at home in Ask Lemmy NSFW).

That was actually the show I had in mind when I asked the question! 😁 It’s another one we quote constantly. If I ever want my wife to come see something cool I did, I’ll ask her if she’s marvelling “Did you marvel?! Are you marvelling?”.

I n…need to do a wee! 🤣

Definitely worth mentioning but also definitely not underrated! We still quote it almost daily “Awright, 'arry? D’you see that ludicrous display last night?” 🤣

Watch… They’ll make money by virtue signalling “no AI use” and then the second AI inevitably goes mainstream pivot to showing off because they use “the best AI”. The trick is to make money no matter which way the wind blows.

If you replace “houses” with “beginning of songs I started to write” that is very much my situation. I thought it was just because I lacked discipline or just couldn’t get my head around song structure until I found out about ADHD.

This will get buried but he isn’t. What he is doing is everything he can to appear that way. Think about it. He carefully picked a country whose leader no one would cry over if he kidnapped him. It was a quick strike with a few helicopters. The rest is just posturing. This is a shell of a man desperate for people to stop laughing at him. In a wider sense Republicans can’t seem to get people to love them so they can only get their rocks off by trying to scare the most amount of people possible. Let’s get back to getting those Epstein files released and not being distracted.

That there’s an aspect of every relationship that always starts the same. It’s two people bringing richness to each other, almost like Kings and Queens coming together bringing their lands and wealth with them.

Over time though that richness can fade and instead of bringing richness they start begging for it from the other person. If you find that you’re in a relationship with someone and that both of you have turned into “beggars” whose life can only be complete if the other person performs a task or meets an expectation, the relationship will weaken and that weakness will invite other problems.

The solution, if you have become a “beggar” in a relationship, is to mentally detach yourself from the other person and spend some time alone trying to reconnect with what made you a rich resource in the first place. You must remind yourself what it was that made you a King or Queen and focus on regrowing those seeds of richness and independence from the other person. Then, once you have placed that crown back on your head you can return to the other person and offer your richness once again.

I’ve never forgotten that and it’s led to a happy marriage for 14 years. Also works with friendships and working/business relationships.

Sadly that is the trend, but not always (thank goodness). I do think people are getting wise to this smoke and mirrors garbage though. Anyone can make a sexy looking rendered scene. Without a hint of what the actual gameplay will look like, it’s just pointless.

Visually stunning? check Meaningless? check About as relevant to the actual game as that Witcher 4 Unreal Engine tech demo? check checkety check.

I’m in this picture and I don’t like it.

Really nice list and well laid out too. Currently downloading the demo for Revenge of the Savage Planet from it :) (and have now bought it. Such a fun game!)

Multiplayer games are absolutely off limits cheating wise for me. HOWEVER… using trainers and mods and things like Cheat Engine in single player games is not only ok, but I often treat it like it’s a mini game. Can I give myself an extra 100k gold? Hmm fire up CE and let’s see :)

The immense thrill I get from reducing some horrible grind from hours to minutes is just huge fun. I’m basically a sandbox guy. GTA5 cheats, for example, have led to more unexpected sandbox fun than I could ever have imagined over the years.

Not using cheats in single player grindfests is like having a first class ticket on a plane but choosing to travel economy. I think it’s basically that I don’t like being told to grind for the sake of it or for some “moral” reason.

I love a FUN grind though. I’ve spent days in games like My Time At Portia just fishing for example. It comes down to this: If a grind is fun, I’ll happily do it but if it’s just like I’m a mouse being toyed with by some cat then hello God mode lol

Sainsbury’s Meal Deal (Xmas themed) “Pigs Under Blankets” sandwich - with cranberry chutney on malted bread. Cumberland sausage, beechwood smoked bacon, cranberry chutney and mayonnaise on malted bread.

Just an average sandwich really, nothing to write home about. Ate it about an hour ago. Best bit was the “grab bag” of barbecue beef hula hoops that I got with it in the meal deal.