These are 2 turning knobs. One for the strength (nearly always full on), one for the time.

Mine has only 1 button, to open the door.

And I like it this way.

I personally don’t even know how to answer this question myself. Like the funeral isn’t even for the dead. Its for the living.

You are exactly on the right track.

It is only for the living. The dead one is not affected in any way anymore, whatever you do.

So to me, the question seems like, should the relatives of a bad person be allowed to see the corpse treated respectfully.

Turn the question around and it becomes easy:

Should the relatives of a bad person get punished along with him? Obviously not. They deserve the full, normal respect. So let them have the burial as they wish it.

Nextcloud, because the app can automatically upload all my photos, screenshots etc. The server is my own one here at home.