Yep, I’ve found it really comes down to setting the right intentions up front, and being selective in who you play with. My goal was never to be on Grindr forever, but that’s where I had to go to meet fun kinky trans people in my area.

No, I don’t count hookups as relationships, especially not long term relationships. But when they turn into significantly more than that, I do. I don’t need to defend my relationships though.

My definition is relationships I’ve been in for a good while that I intend to stay in. Why the personal attacks though? Seems pretty rude for no reason.

You’d be surprised… I currently have two LTRs that started as Grindr hookups…

Someone can’t get catgirls to pay attention to them… I feel sorry for you.

I’m always looking for a fun little project, I could dev that into a desktop app or website if you wanted.