The original reference (which triggered the OP to post) is a cis man saying he wouldn’t sleep with a pre op trans woman.

He said something along the lines that girldick is disgusting, I’m saying it’s hot.

If that’s problematic I can delete (not sure how that works on lemmy though). I would rather hear it from a trans woman though. If you want to discuss, go for it.

Trans women are women. Girldick is best dick.

Know that you are loved. ^And also sexually objectified. Sorry bout that… ^

-Sincerely a cis lesbian.