It was embarassing at the time, but a unique experience to be plunged into such a deep, dreamless unconsciousness. I don’t engage in intense choking during sex, but it is good to have experienced it to varying degrees in organized practice.

I am something of the opposite. I like sports coats, three-piece suits and dressing up as formal as I can push things without looking ridiculous (or, if I am with friends, sometimes just looking a bit ridiculous). But I live in a hot climate where there are only a few months of the year I can layer up without melting into a pile of slag. 😭

This year I have been subjecting one of my wives to orgasm denial, under threat of intense application of her shock collar. She has been allowed three or four total, on special occasions. She has been loving it. It has left her constantly horny and she says it has been the best sex of her life. She is on day fifty of her current streak, and I am intending to extend it to a full year. When her chastity belt arrives I am eager to figure out the best way to fit it with a remote vibrator, so I can tease her at will.

Male here. Usually one orgasm in a day. Sometimes two. I can go as long as I want, but once I’m spent, I’m pretty well spent. I can manage three on rare occasions.

Interesting to know. I have never heard about that before.

This is the hardcore NSFW content I come to this Lemmy instance for.

Honestly, I want to see my wife have sex with other men as we all humiliate her.

Sometimes, when I want to express my deep and special connection to my partner, I will perform an act I call nose finger. This act consists of me extending my index finger, shoving it in her nostril, then holding it there a few moments as we savor the connection. I reason, in this depraved, libertine age, you could sleep with someone and have it mean almost nothing. But who, except your most intimate of intimates, would you let shove their finger up your nose?

She appreciates how deeply romantic I am.

Straight man here. I was asked out by a trans woman and we started going out. Somewhat different situation than your question, as I never had particular fantasies of or attraction to trans women. We eventually slept together. I was super nervous, since she was my first date, first kiss, first everything. In the end we got married and are living happily ever after, so I would say it worked out pretty great.

Based on your question I presume you are particularly interested in the aspect of being with a woman with a penis. For me it was alright. It is not my preferred genital configuration for a sexual partner, so I was quite happy when she got SRS several years later.

Like Jersusalemspiderman mentioned, many trans women have a contentious relationship with that part of their anatomy. I am not sure what percentage of trans women are interested in performing penetrative anal sex on a man, but I believe it is fairly low; if that particular act is important to you, you may be going against long odds. It was not something that I desired. While my then-girlfriend was pre-op, we did anal sex with me as the penetrator. I occasionally performed oral sex, though she liked to give more than receive. And the handjobs were mutual. I also topped in a variety of BDSM activities, though that is not really trans-related.

Be aware that estrogen can reduce penis size. It can vary a lot person-to-person, though. My other trans girlfriend actually had a penis larger than mine.

Treat the trans people in your life with kindness. Society is often cruel to them.

I was choked unconscious once, as a stupid novice grappler who didn’t tap out when I should. It was wild waking up from what felt like a deeply restful sleep, and realizing that for some reason I was on a mat instead of my bed, and there was a circle of people around me. It took me half a minute to remember how I got there. 😅

Two! Finally made it official this year, after twenty years with one (my first girlfriend), and the other having been with us for thirteen.