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Cake day: June 21st, 2023

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  • I’m very quick to block. Much faster to do so than I was on Reddit. I think the reason is because there’s so much less content on Lemmy that I sort by new instead of “hot”. That means I see content that would normally have been downvoted out of sight on Reddit. I’m tired of giving people the benefit of the doubt just to see the same terrible shit from them again later on. Now I just block.










  • It depends on the stability that the parents can provide. There are so many ways this can go, that I’m not going to make generalized assumptions, but it’s entirely possible with a system like that for a mother to have sole custody of a child when she is not the more stable option, just because she is the mother. From the sound of it, most parents don’t go to the courts and work it out themselves, which is fantastic, but if both parents want to be in the life of the child, and both are stable and responsible parties, the court shouldn’t prevent that. That being said, I don’t have any first-hand experience with the Japanese courts, and I’m going to stop guessing at how all this plays out.


  • Previously, divorcing couples in Japan were free to decide custody and visitation arrangements. But if they went to court over it, custody would only be awarded to one parent.

    Under the new law, a family court can decide whether to grant sole or joint custody to divorcing couples.

    Parents who divorced under the old system are also now eligible to have their custody arrangement reviewed by the family court.

    That’s crazy, but I’m in fascist America, so who am I to talk.