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Cake day: June 22nd, 2023

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  • I like chunkier scrollbars. Fuck the tiny disappearing scrollbars where you need to mouse over… somewhere… to maybe be graced with its presence, only for it to be 1px wide for some reason.
    Also fuck the endless scroll, especially when you already know what you’re looking for is on page 4 because you had to reload the page for some reason but the infinite scroll didn’t save your position and you have to go down (without an actual scrollbar) only to “load more” 3 times until you’re (maybe) on page 4.









  • Honestly, it’s really not my place to encourage you to do or not do anything (or her).
    I’m just saying this kind of connection is special and something to be cherished, to hold on to it, to nurture it, to enjoy its bliss.

    Whichever way works for you both is fine, really.
    You can choose to try and make what you want out of this connection. By all means, spend time with her, let it develop into what it may.

    In our case, both of us already being happy in our own long-term non-poly couples, that’s quite a bit different.
    And so we focus on maintaining the privilege to be part of each other’s lives first and foremost without blowing each other’s lives up.

    I imagine some/most go on their whole lives without ever meeting this person for them and I feel blessed.