I love the critique on “the Fediverse has bad UX”, I was so excited I got the reference before reading any comment. Also I agree with it.

The other answers are correct, I just wanted to add that they’re talking about Reddit

I hope you can overcome the parts of your sickness that keep you more immobile, but otherwise it sounds like you’re in a healthy relationship and state of mind, which, with or without kids, is still key for a happy life.

Thank you for sharing.