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    2 days ago

    This isn’t necessarily an answer to your question but -

    If someone says they don’t like swallowing/don’t want you to cum in their mouth, regardless of the reasoning, you shouldn’t try to “logic” them into complying with it. Lots of people have preferences, and the least sexy thing you can do is try to persuade someone past a hard no.

    I like swallowing, but if I didn’t want to and someone asked me this during the act, it would be a guarantee that I would never hook up with them again.

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        2 days ago

        Unfortunately, there are some people who are specifically into people not being okay with things. Think about how often porn depicts coercive scenarios. Not even full on rape, but pressuring (usually women) into doing acts that they specifically don’t want to do.

        I had a very upsetting encounter the other night along those lines.