i do not believe these words should be abandoned!
in this post i hope to call attention to the same destructive processes happening to “neurodiverse” as to all the other terms. particularly i want to call out the ableist motivations behind it. my intent is to critique society’s weaponization of words, not the words themselves.
We understand that. Tell society that. We’re not exactly the march in the street crowd so when we get yelled at we go back to the corner and think of a new name.
Maybe don’t go back in the corner? You need to learn to stand up for yourself otherwise you’ll just be bullied for the rest of your life.
Not just you, anyone with this attitude.
Oh boo fucking hoo they’re mean to you? Be even meaner.
Or we could just not be mean.
The sad reality is that people will always be mean.
honestly i love being mean. especially to people who have been mean to me.
but! it’s trivial when i’m mean to use insults that don’t implicate the identity of disabled people or other marginalized groups
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Then they can be mean to someone else. I don’t have the time to deal with that in my life.
And let people walk all over you and then complain about being the victim. Mean people don’t deserve kindness, they deserve the same energy they’re giving out.
Taking the high road doesn’t work.
It’s not kindness, it’s nothing. They don’t need to be in my life. I don’t need to be in their establishment. My mean quota for my life is already full.