Ya, I worked at a place with 12 hour shifts for well over a decade, often 6 days a week. It was from 7 am to 7 pm day shift, 7 pm to 7 am night shift, and would alternate every two weeks.
It was good money but I missed a lot of my two kids growing up. I wish I could say that at least it got me ahead financially, but my ex spent money like it was going out of style. I probably would have been better off flipping burgers and staying close to home.
I found the same. My ex couldn’t grasp me trying to establish a budget, her response was “There’s always money in the account, why do we need to budget”, I said " The reason there is always money there is I keep putting it there because you are extending into overdraft everyday".
I definetly found that working a lot meant I missed a lot with the kids, when I was off work my whole life was the kids because I knew we were missing moments.
But working OT and endless money also means you make convenience decisions, like: let’s just grab $60 of pizza on the way home since we won’t have time to prep dinner, meanwhile there’s a full fridge of food.
Now that I’m on 40hour WFH, it means dinner can be made for under $5 because I’m home and can pre-simmer a sauce from scratch, or get something roasting ahead of time.
Ya, I worked at a place with 12 hour shifts for well over a decade, often 6 days a week. It was from 7 am to 7 pm day shift, 7 pm to 7 am night shift, and would alternate every two weeks.
It was good money but I missed a lot of my two kids growing up. I wish I could say that at least it got me ahead financially, but my ex spent money like it was going out of style. I probably would have been better off flipping burgers and staying close to home.
I found the same. My ex couldn’t grasp me trying to establish a budget, her response was “There’s always money in the account, why do we need to budget”, I said " The reason there is always money there is I keep putting it there because you are extending into overdraft everyday".
I definetly found that working a lot meant I missed a lot with the kids, when I was off work my whole life was the kids because I knew we were missing moments.
But working OT and endless money also means you make convenience decisions, like: let’s just grab $60 of pizza on the way home since we won’t have time to prep dinner, meanwhile there’s a full fridge of food.
Now that I’m on 40hour WFH, it means dinner can be made for under $5 because I’m home and can pre-simmer a sauce from scratch, or get something roasting ahead of time.