Hi. So I (15F/M) have a sister ‘Cecilia’ (13F). Cecilia and our uncle have had a long history of arguing. Not only is our uncle racist, but he is also a bit transphobic to me in the past especially, and a misogynist who used to beat his ex-wife and current wife whenever he was angry, which he claimed was because of the medication he was on/alcohol, IDK.

One day, he tried to ask Cecilia to get him back with his ex-wife who already has a husband and a kid. However, Cecilia said no. He called her a traitor, she blocked him, and he told me to “tell Cecilia fuck you”.

Our grandma, however, the Mom of our uncle and dad, told Cecilia she should apologize and “admit her wrongdoing” so they could be a whole family again.

Is Cecilia TA for refusing to apologize and not forgiving our uncle?

My vote, but this is me: NTA.

  • Canaconda@lemmy.ca
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    16 days ago

    Honestly as a parent you should be ashamed of yourself. What a disgusting callous and ignorant attitude. Especially for a parent of a special needs child. I’m honestly astonished at the complete lack of sympathy and empathy on your part.

    OP and the uncle deserve each other as two sides of the same coin.

    You are way more like OPs uncle than they are.

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      16 days ago

      I lack sympathy because I can tell the difference between attention seeking behaviour and actual mental health issues.

      This is attention seeking behavior. Nothing that OP is doing ever needed to happen and OP and their sister could have easily walked away from all of it. It sounds like the sister did the exact right thing in blocking the uncle and moving on.

      You’ve clearly read my post history. Do yourself a favor and read OP’s.

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        16 days ago

        OP and their sister could have easily walked away from all of it.

        Yea well I’m sure you’ll see plenty of that once your kid wizens up to your antics.

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          16 days ago

          Lmao OP has a second account where the post a bunch about this uncle too. Weird shit, but by all means continue encouraging it.

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            Lmao OP has a second account where the post a bunch about this uncle too. Weird shit, but by all means continue encouraging it.

            • lohky@lemmy.world

            Ew bro get a hobby. quit stalking kids online