Hi. So I (15F/M) have a sister ‘Cecilia’ (13F). Cecilia and our uncle have had a long history of arguing. Not only is our uncle racist, but he is also a bit transphobic to me in the past especially, and a misogynist who used to beat his ex-wife and current wife whenever he was angry, which he claimed was because of the medication he was on/alcohol, IDK.
One day, he tried to ask Cecilia to get him back with his ex-wife who already has a husband and a kid. However, Cecilia said no. He called her a traitor, she blocked him, and he told me to “tell Cecilia fuck you”.
Our grandma, however, the Mom of our uncle and dad, told Cecilia she should apologize and “admit her wrongdoing” so they could be a whole family again.
Is Cecilia TA for refusing to apologize and not forgiving our uncle?
My vote, but this is me: NTA.
IMO someone needs to notify his ex-wife. Like this is major, major red flag behaviour.
Like the fact that he thinks a 13yo girl can help him win his re-married ex wife back indicates to me he does not have a grip on reality.