I’ve been abused and bullied for years even as a child/young teenager, and my friend told me it was my fault and that if I wasn’t such a subhuman waste of space, I wouldn’t be abused and then believed all the lies her friends made about me. She then “forgave” me (IDK what I did wrong, I may have, though) but what she said still hurts. Is it a person’s fault for being abused?