• Honytawk@lemmy.zip
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    2 days ago

    Yeah, just stop normalizing talking with people who don’t want to socialize.

    The problem in the comic isn’t the neighbor, it is talking to the neighbor.

    Just walk past without saying a word. What are they going to do? Move?

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            Completely depends on culture. Even in the US, I like working in the northeast because people ignore each other and it’s fantastic. In the south it actually impedes my work because it seems like everyone wants to have meaningless conversations all the time.

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              This is true. Denser populations tend to be more antisocial. Europe and much of the US northeast is crowded, most of the US south is not. It’s also why a lot of people from small-town US think most “city folk” are rude, and that includes many Europeans. It’s really just culture.

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          You are their neighbor and they are yours. Why should they say hi first and not you ?

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            There a real easy answer to that question. The reason they should say “hi” is because they want to. If they don’t want to, then by golly, they don’t have to. It’s as simple as that. Personally, I am not going to foist upon every rando on my block or in my apartment building, the burden of meaningless formalities just because I go to bed every night closer to them than 8 billion other folks’. I let them be so that they can get about with their busy day. That’s just plain considerate.

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      There is no problem in the comic. We live in a society, democracy is based on the idea that we want others to be treated fairly, we should start to act like one.

      Greeting your neightbour is a good, easy, positive thing.

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        democracy is based on the idea that we want others to be treated fairly

        I think the last few months have more than proven that is not the case.

        Democracy, in its most common implementation, is based on the idea of the tyranny of the majority. This often runs counter to the concept of treating others fairly.

        People who suffer anxiety are in the minority - and they are forced to navigate a world of people who expect them to conform with their social norms.

        We should just live and let live.

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          This is it. As long as I can remember in the US, the winning party (winning with 23.7% of the eligible voters approval vs 22.9% on the other side) have always essentially said, “suck it losers!” and done as much as they can of what the other party hates. It’s tyranny of the majority and why the US has a constitutional Republic framework to limit that tyranny, however ineffective it may be. Never has a party come into power and said, “let’s make sure we also represent the will of the millions of voters who voted the other way.”

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        Sure, but it isn’t a necessary thing.

        Not even in a society where everyone gets treated fairly.