Let’s say you’re hanging out in a swimsuit, you’ve been in and out of the water, a plausible time to get a “veggie”. If you get one, is it immediately noticeable to you? Or do you have to occasionally check so you’re not like “oh god how long have I been walking around like this”?
As the only boy with a ton of sisters and did drama class in HS I was cool with girls.
More than once I’ve whispered “nipcheck” and gotten a simple thank you.
Lesson learned then I guess. I had a friend who had an unmissable cameltoe right in my face (she was standing and I was sitting) and I didn’t say anything as to not be weird - but maybe I should have.
I had established myself as cool with the girls over time. Saying it out of the blue you gotta be chill and not awkward about it.
I guess I’d whisper “front wedgie” casually then turn away and completely ignore her. Don’t make it a big deal or seem embarrassed. That’ll just embarrass her too or give off a bad vibe.
I think it’s less what you say and how you say it. As well as your relationship with that person. Someone who’s a complete stranger might react badly.
I’d love a female opinion on this. ^
I had a friend wearing a red thong and she had massive whale tail going on. I whispered “red” to her and she didn’t get it. “Red?”
“Yeah red.” Then I did a quick glace back flicking my eyes only and she hopped up and pulled her shirt down to cover up like a cartoon. No one had any idea what that was about except me. I just asked if she was okay and didn’t laugh at her. We ended up getting close after that. Good times.