If this bunny can date a girl bunny four times its size, you can date a woman a few centimeters taller.
If male angler fish can find mates, short men can date tall women.
That’s hot
I don’t get these guys. My wife is a couple inches taller than me and it… just doesn’t matter? If anything it puts my face closer to the boobies, so what’s the problem?
On the flip side I’m (m) 186cm and my (f) parter is 175cm and shes said she could never be with a guy shorter then her.
So presumably there is some truth to this myth in some cases ?
Guys are being spoonfed by the monosphere the narrative that if they’re 1cm too short or 1kg too heavy, women immediately despise them.
It keeps them trapped in a self fulfilling cycle of despair and watching mysoginist grifter content online.
Bro if I could only find a woman who’s like >2m…
I would love to be the little spoon for once :(
get a haircut and grow some tits
ironic given your username lol
explain
nutsack creates testosterone, but it’s saying to become a girl, which undoes its work
I fail to see the problem.
I know the solution…get off 4 chan
It’s hard to find a community that agrees with you when you say that you are a loser.
Much easier to not be a loser when not on 4chan
Or when you like men who are the same height or shorter than you … but are quite short yourself. I assume many tall heterosexual women aren’t happy with their height, either.
Either way it doesn’t matter if you literally never go out to meet people.
Same. 2m tall and get 0 sweethearts. Therapy wasn’t much help with anxiety caused by this. It is really painful, knowing that I’ll be forever alone. Contemplating taking an easy way out since September.
My partner is almost 2m tall. The have often complained that their size easily scares people off. I’m sorry about the anxiety. It sucks.
I believe the world is better with you in it. If you want to chat, I’m available.
cant figure out if Annon has too much Tormund energy or not enough
My gf is shorter than me by a a few centimeters(maybe like an inch for you americans) but she wears heels so she seems taller and thats a postitive if you ask me.
They were talking about women not liking short guys, not them not liking tall women.
Yeah but i think its a two sided thing as it usually is in relationships. Ive seen so many dms of people falling apart cause “when she wears heels shes infringing on my masculinity” or whatever. If you have the confidence and she doesnt care about it(which taller women usually dont cause its not like theyre gonna find someone whos 220cm) then it will work. If youre like “oh my crush is taller than me, i have no chance” youre setting yourself up for failiure. Also while i know this isnt the best advice but if youre short short than maybe try working out in a gym and becoming fit cause then you can get an extra factor that they might like you for.
Do people actually care about height?
Yes, especially among more shallow groups…
Although you’re not allowed to talk about it, it may even be a biologically sought trait. One of those animal things we act like we evolved past.
(In before a thousand comments about this one guy being shorter disproving… Oh wait)
It’s worth considering that we might not have a choice in the matter, at least as far as the subconscious is concerned.
No idea, but whenever I tried using dating apps, there were fields in the profile for height, so the developers must think that someone cares.
Some do (prefers tall), some do (prefers short), some don’t care either way, which is the case for pretty much any trait. Even serial killers get fanmail from people who get horny from that kind of thing.
Though the distribution isn’t neutral (as in the average pop might prefer it one way over the other).
Yes. Your height is a huge factor in your social appeal and status.
Taller people are considered more attractive, get paid more, and generally have positive biases associated with them. Short people have negative ones.
it’s further biased when it comes to female to male selection. men don’t care so much about women’s height, but women care very much about dating a larger, physically stronger, partner.
I mean, I have a preference but it’s not even a determining factor for me. I care much more about what kind of person they are.
what???
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Short people have negative [biases associated with them]
among school bullies and manosphere idiots
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Taller people […] get paid more
this definitely isn’t true (Technically it is, but height is not the cause, sex is)
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women care very much about dating a larger, physically stronger, partner
seems like a harmful and untrue stereotype
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men don’t care so much about women’s height
also seems like a harmful stereotype, also personally as a {idk if man or agender} i do kinda prefer tall women, but as @daggermoon@lemmy.world said, “I mean, I have a preference but it’s not even a determining factor for me. I care much more about what kind of person they are.”
I interpreted those as tears of pure joy and I refuse to believe any other interpretation.
I have found lots of guys don’t want to date anyone as tall or taller than them (or one guy who fetishized it, which was so not better) it’s certainly not just women driving this preference.
But can’t say that being tall as a lady has ever really kept me from finding partners, and the short guys I know in real life also do fine, so I think this is usually more of a weak preference not a criteria.
because most people believe in trad gender roles. man is big and tall and strong. woman is smaller and weaker.
It’s funny though - a guy my size is still stronger than me and guys shorter than me often still outmass me and are stronger than me, it’s strange that it’s so hyperfocused on height.
Husband is my height but outweighs me by 50-60lb and can lift 2x what I can on my best day. I’m literally smaller and weaker, lol, despite being neither small nor weak.
