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    There’s a chance that media like this will get him to think, even if he initially rejects the idea.

    Might be a very slim chance, though.

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      Media literacy is surprisingly low. Just look at how many people think Star Trek is conservative 🤦‍♂️

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            If fucking only it went broke. They’ve produced like 3 hits, 8 misses. Their budgets are a billion dollars each, how can they so consistently create garbage with a billion dollars? It’s utterly baffling. And it isn’t even entertaining garbage. I enjoyed birdemic and the like. It’s just boring, disjointed, anxiety-inducing, and dumb.

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            Fuck that. The morons who scream WOOOOKE at everything they don’t like that doesn’t fully cater to their worldviews are part of the reason why those shows and movies suck. Blaming bad writing on any kind of agenda is giving the writers and showrunners an undeserved scapegoat.

            Yes, the latter seasons of Doctor Who were an atrocity, but it’s not because of the Doctor’s female incarnations (although the retcon itself is still horrid), it’s because Chris Chibnall is a fucking terrible showrunner and dogshit writer that makes even Moffatt’s writing look positively adequate. Fuck you, Chris.

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        It’s the military space battles. Most of them gloss over the whole socialist utopia as “fantasy” and just go right to “they’re just military during peace time” view

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          Not just that; look at it from a specific angle, and it’s about a white, straight, human male ‘saving’ the poor, savage alien species—when not beating up the evil, aggressive brown alien species, that is.

          I mean, they are obviously missing a lot of the context, but they’re not pulling their beliefs out of thin air, either.

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      I mean it worked on me. Raised Republican, surrounded by Republicans my entire adolescence. Always voted Republican.

      But then I discovered Digg after Kevin Rose talked about it on TechTV, and that changed everything for me. Then after Digg committed sudoku, I moved onto reddit, which further pulled me to the left. Now here I am on Lemmy, embarrassed with myself for being ignorant enough to actually believe that the Rs were the good guys for the first 25-some years of my life.

      Point I’m making is that if I can change my ways, then others can too. The only people who vote R are either a. ignorant or b. evil. Those like me, who are the former of the two can change their ways. I don’t think there’s any hope for those who are a part of column B.

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        tbf, our national public education system as as literally designed by businessmem to make compliant factory workers with minimal critical thinking skills.

        then religion is there at the sideline to make you feel happy being stupid

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    As someone that grew up with detached parents with whom I never had the relationship I wanted, I’ve come to recognize that it will never happen. My mother is now dead, and like my father, she lacked the capacity to engage in healthy relationships. The monologue in the “Free Churro” episode (S5E6) of Bojack Horseman really hits home for me, this point in particular:

    I have this friend. And right around when I first met her, her dad died, and I actually went with her to the funeral. And months later, she told me that she didn’t understand why she was still upset, because she never even liked her father. It made sense to me, because I went through the same thing when my dad died. And I’m going through the same thing now. You know what it’s like? It’s like that show Becker, you know, with Ted Danson? I watched the entire run of that show, hoping that it would get better, and it never did. It had all the right pieces, but it just—it couldn’t put them together. And when it got canceled, I was really bummed out, not because I liked the show, but because I knew it could be so much better, and now it never would be. And that’s what losing a parent is like. It’s like Becker.

    For anyone else in the same position, recognize that it is exceptionally difficult for people to change, and a necessary prerequisite is that they see change as necessary and want to change. Most are afraid of change and will never do it, to their detriment.

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      man, maybe i should watch bojack. i’v recently realized i’v wasted like…5 years of the prime of my life trying to form some kind of connection with my dad, who ultimately is just…too far gone from 30+ years of murdoch propaganda to ever be salvageable.

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    Jesus Christ. Yeah, I’d prefer to not have a father figure like that. I mean, I do, but I’d like a better one.

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    Oh god that’s genuinely tragic.

    Sorry OP, your dad sucks, move on sooner than later is my advice, please don’t ask about where this advice comes from.

    (Yes I know the OP here on lemmy probably is not that actual original OP, but ya’ll know what I mean.)